Time after time

In Italy, time is a malleable concept. 9 a.m. could turn into 9:10 or 5 p.m. could increase by 15 minutes.
No big deal.
Nevertheless, you will probably get a text message saying that your companion will be delayed.
So don’t get too anal about punctuality when you are not in class. Remember, this is not the United States where people arrive at least 10 minutes prior to the time agreed. That pisses Italians off.
On the other hand, don’t expect waiters to give you the bill in the middle of your dining experience and say: “whenever you are ready.” That is rude. The beauty of an Italian dining experience is not just eating savory food but spend time talking and talking. Conversation becomes the main course.